Breakup and love problems: what your Kundli says, and when love returns

A breakup can make even a sensible person open a Kundli at 2 am. If that is you, be kind to yourself first. Then read on, because astrology has a useful way of looking at heartbreak. It treats it as timing, not as a verdict on you.

Where love shows in the Kundli

• The 5th house: romance and attraction.
• The 7th house: marriage and lasting partnership.
• Venus: love and harmony. The Moon: the heart and its needs.

Why relationships break

• Rahu or Ketu passing over your 5th or 7th house brings sudden attraction and sudden endings.
• Saturn passing over the 5th or 7th house or over Venus tests whether a bond is real. What is not solid ends.
• The dasha of a planet in the 6th, 8th or 12th house can pull two people apart.
• A strong 5th house with a weak 7th gives romance that struggles to become marriage.

Will my ex come back?

This is the question everyone asks, and an honest astrologer will not promise it. A chart can show when a good period for love opens for you. It cannot decide what another person will choose. Relationships that end under Saturn’s test usually end for a reason that is easier to see a year later.

When love returns

Look for the antardasha of Venus, of your 5th or 7th lord, or of Jupiter, together with Jupiter passing through the 5th, 7th or 9th from your Moon. For many rashis 2027 has such windows, because Jupiter is exalted in Kark until 25 June and then moves to Simha.

Gentle remedies

• Chant "Om Shukraya Namah" on Fridays and keep the day simple and clean.
• Worship Shiva and Parvati together on Mondays, for a steady and respectful partner.
• Give yourself time before the next relationship. Venus heals slowly.
• Spend time with friends and family. The Moon needs company.

If the pain is not easing, or you feel hopeless, please talk to someone you trust or a counsellor. Asking for help is strength.